Hi, I’m Carolyn—a Jesus follower, survivor of both quiet devastation and loud disasters, and a trauma-aware crisis resource advisor. Around here, I offer soft-spoken strength for storm-weathered souls, the kind of compassion that doesn’t sugarcoat reality but helps you face it with insight and grace. I’ve lived through abuse, betrayal, family court chaos, and cruel, ungodly, highly manipulative, and illegal conduct in the Christian environment. I know what it’s like to feel undone by people who were supposed to protect or shepherd you.
You’ll find honesty here, not fluff. Because sometimes healing looks like crying in your car after court, caring for kids when you have no strength, laughing while sipping tea on your porch, and setting boundaries that make religious people nervous. I write and share from both my battle scars and my breakthroughs.
Tea in one hand, truth bombs in the other.
I’m here to walk with you through the fog, help you reclaim your voice, and remind you that God hasn’t forgotten you. You’re not crazy. You’re not alone. And you don’t have to keep surviving in silence.
Carolyn Deevers 